[ SECRET POST #1387 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1387 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[tadashi-chan.livejournal.com]

Um, it's good to have role models and things that inspire you, but... dude, get help. Friends, family, counseling.... anything! Don't *just* rely on celebs and stuff like that to make you feel better. They're helpful, but the best support comes from those around you.

[(Anonymous)]

That's generally not what I meant by this secret at all. You're aware of how difficult transgenderism is, riiight? So you rely on things to make you feel better, just like with any issue which hence forces you into some kind of depression (which is what I'm experiencing) I'm not looking up to him as some superficial celebrity, but as the mentor I wish I had.
Oh, and don't start comments with um. It makes you seem like a bitch.

Go on, argue back if you want to, I feel like expressing myself right now; don't treat me like some kid who wants to be a celebrity. If you don't get it (which you blatantly don't) don't try to partonise me.

Oh, and it's extremely offensive to tell someone to "get help" when they have just expressed having an issue like this; it's obvious you don't understand how hard that 'help' is to get. Cheers for that.

[countess-k.livejournal.com]

Hate to butt in when wank is happening but I think you may have misread tadashi_chan's reply. What they meant wasn't "get help," but "seek support." Find people around you who are willing to accept you for who you are and can help you deal with those who don't. I hope you don't go off at me for that, I just saw nothing wrong with that statement. Adam is an awesome guy and there's nothing wrong in idolizing him. But the bottom line is he can't talk to you or listen to you when you need it and it would be better if you had someone like that in your life too.

Not the OP

[(Anonymous)]

I was the classic small-town-boy - except with tits. Parents disowned me when I came out. Lost my best friend. Counseling - how? Not everyone's got resources to spare.

Sometimes the support just isn't there. You take what you can get.

OP - rock on. Whatever works for you.

Re: Not the OP

[countess-k.livejournal.com]

"Counseling - how?"

How about help hotlines? There must have been something in your area. I'm just assuming because I see the phone number for the one in my area advertised everywhere.

If there is no way to contact a counselor in your community AT ALL then the fault is with the community. Transgenderism and sexual identity aside, what about suicide ideation, drug abuse, depression? It's a dangerous ship without a lifeboat for the young, vulnerable passengers.