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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-11-14 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #1411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 10 pages, 240 secrets from Secret Submission Post #202.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
112. http://i53.tinypic.com/wlvrig.png

[identity profile] kitkat1327.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm only here because LIBRARY WARS. THIS IS MY FIRST TIME SEEING LIBRARY WARS MENTIONED, LIKE ANYWHERE <3
ext_81845: penelope, my art/character (homigod!)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Hoshit is that Library Wars?
I need to finish watching that. It's such a weird show
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[personal profile] ammchan 2010-11-14 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Is... is that Lin from Ghost Hunt?!

Anon, I love you. <3 And you're not the only one who uses fandom to cope with various things. Don't feel bad!

[identity profile] gabzillaz.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
The last pic... they look so familiar. :O

(Anonymous) 2010-11-15 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Roy and Riza from the FMA Wii game. :3

[identity profile] gabzillaz.livejournal.com 2010-11-16 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I knew it!

I need to find the big version.

[identity profile] velvet-iron.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know what it's really called but I call it 'removal'. And I do it. By putting the problem on someone else - someone you identify with, care about, etc. but that is fictional - it lets you take a step back from the situation. It gives you just the right amount of distance from it to look at it a bit more subjectively. It makes it safe to deal with because it's not happening to you anymore, it's happening to someone who is a stand-in for you. It might be weird but I think it's healthy and a safe way to deal with things that otherwise would be overwhelming. The character you've given the problem to gets the comfort you wish for and so deals with the problem - which in a way has given you enough distance to deal with the problem - or at least blunt it - yourself. It's a strange form of living vicarious - but it works and at the end of the day, that's what counts.

though - I've got friends forty and over and there's not a single one of us that isn't still working on this 'adult' thing. That's the secret they never tell you - it's a lifelong process getting where you're going. So don't feel ashamed - find some solid friends you know you can trust and reach out to them. Because fiction is nice - but real friends are awfully nice too and not only is it possible it would make them feel better to be able to help - you just might hit something they're wrestling with themselves as well.