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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-11-14 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #1411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1411 ⌋

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[identity profile] miezen.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
...Sounds like your self esteem is a mess, anon. I'm sorry about that, I've been there and it's not a fun place. But why are you singling out your slash fan friends? That's the part I understand the least. It's sad that you feel bad when your friends are attractive and [I assume] you feel that you aren't, and when your self esteem is low it's an understandable reaction. But why specifically your friends that like slash?

Also maybe try focusing on looking better and/or liking yourself rather than wanting to tear others down? It's hard when you have a problem like weight issues, acne, etc, but these ARE things that can be overcome, and there's nothing wrong with loving yourself in the meantime. And if the issue is something like you feel like you have a big nose/your boobs are too small/etc, try taking some time to look at it differently? Find celebrities or someone else you'd consider attractive with similar features to your own that you're insecure about. Anything can be beautiful.