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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-12-19 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1446 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1446 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 302 secrets from Secret Submission Post #207.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2010-12-20 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, man. Growing up, because I'm smart in some ways (read books), people just expected me to be good at... math, and remembering details, and caring about politics, and all this stuff. I just... hate disappointing people.

One of my favorite things about my current S.O. is how he never expects me to remember this sort of stuff. He still treats me like I am an intelligent being, but when I'm around him I don't have to spend so much of my time being evasive or going, "Uh, yeah, sure, I remember/care about/know how to do/want whatever you're talking about" to someone who assumes I do, because I'm brilliant or something.

And because I've been around him for so long, I started to realize that I am a complete person just as I am, and acting more confident. Smiling when I say, "I don't know" or feeling comfortable saying, "actually, I can't remember names." There is nothing wrong with me. I don't HAVE to know everything, or worse, pretend I do.

Um. Anyway. I hope you find your Jeeves, too.