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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-01-05 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #1464 ]


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Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 108 secrets from Secret Submission Post #209.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[identity profile] bloodparade.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
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So, if someone doesn't actively consent to sex, that's ok in your mind?

GTFO.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
Do you sign a consent form every time you have sex?

[identity profile] bloodparade.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
You know how I consent to sex. I tell my partner, "Hey, let's have sex." If someone doesn't say something to that effect, then they are not consenting. Yes, there may be some deal between partners but you cannot assume consent. You just cannot.

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(Anonymous) 2011-01-06 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
or if they express nonverbal consent, which is entirely possible


not agreeing with kallanda_lee on anything here, just thought I'd point that out before she pounced on it

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[identity profile] bloodparade.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
That is correct, sorry I didn't address that. If you have a deal with your partner(s) on how you give consent, that is not my business lol. I am really only concerned with my own sex life.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Glad to know that most of the sex I had one of us was raping the other, then...

(Anonymous) 2011-01-06 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
and you jumped on it anyway because you're a stupid fuck who can't read

just leave

[identity profile] bloodparade.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
Like I said, you may have a deal or way of communicating with your partner(s). But consent cannot be assumed. If someone asks someone else "hey, do you want to have sex?" and there is silence, you cannot assume the answer is yes.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
But what if those words were never uttered, from neither side?

What if all there was were bodies grinding against each other in the first place - in a very primal way - and that lead to so sex in the natural flow of things?

[identity profile] bloodparade.livejournal.com 2011-01-06 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
Did I not already discuss this? If you have an understanding with your partner, great. Don't project the same assumptions onto everyone.