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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-01-16 04:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #1475 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1475 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 14 pages, 349 secrets from Secret Submission Post #211.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Okay, sassy gay anon will bite.

(Anonymous) 2011-01-17 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
You know anon, this secret actually doesn't horrify me. You know what it does mean, though? On some level, you already want to/need to break up with your partner. People talk about blurting out the wrong name in bed all the time, but girl, let's be honest here: ladies don't have secret "PRESS HERE TO SCREAM THE WRONG NAME" buttons in their pussies. What it probably means is you just didn't care enough, in the moment, to engage your mouth-to-brain-filter, because you were bored, or being passive-aggressive, or because you honestly thought your partner wouldn't care that you were fantasizing.

Regardless, now that you know he DOES care -- very deeply, it seems -- and your reaction is a big ol' 'meh'? THAT'S the part that makes me think you're headed for Break-up Point. Whether or not you think it's silly that he's threatened by your fantasies, you can't both stick your heads in the sand and hope the problem goes away. That doesn't work in the real world. If fantasizing about other guys is what cranks your engine? You own up to that (preferably BEFORE busting it out in bed!) and see if it's a kink he is willing to consensually accommodate. If not? You can either choose to patch things up and keep your fantasies private, or you can choose to find someone else. (And trust me - there are in fact plenty of people out there who are into sharing fantasies/roleplaying/cuckolding. I wouldn't get nearly so much cosplay sex if there weren't.)

Re: Okay, sassy gay anon will bite.

[identity profile] hello-ilu.livejournal.com 2011-01-17 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
A+++++, sassy gay anon ♥

Re: Okay, sassy gay anon will bite.

[identity profile] mythc-writer.livejournal.com 2011-01-17 09:39 am (UTC)(link)
Every word you wrote is true. Best answer ever anon.

Re: Okay, sassy gay anon will bite.

[identity profile] bamf-girl.livejournal.com 2011-01-17 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Sassy gay anon, you're the coolest.<3