You're right, I was jumping to an assumption on a vague secret/statement. I didn't really mean to do that, as I have no say in what someone's actual sexuality is. I just meet too many girls who run around calling themselves lesbians because they crush on girls they RP buttsex with. A lesbian can get off to man/man sex or het sex and still be a lesbian, I wasn't implying they couldn't if that's what it looked like. But if that is the ONLY way she can get off, and can't get off with real girls, then I have my doubts. If that's the only way she can get off, fantasy-wise, then I can understand.

I sound like such a self-righteous twat, and I apologise for that, haha.