Maybe those people should stop fantasizing about internet strangers being kawaii yaoi bishounen, and they might actually ground themselves and learn a thing or two about gender identity. And also, I really wish people would stop being automatically antagonistic even when their suspicions turn out to be true (attention grabbing). Most of these people will never know anyone's full background, so it really shouldn't matter at all.

lol I'm one to talk since "gender queer"/neither is the closest thing I fit, but refer to myself as a girl when asked because I get tired of explaining what I mean. Also when a point of physical reference is needed, but I wish that was where it ended. Blargh. I'm just glad you already make clear who you are, and hope you stick to your guns.