and when you talk about your hate on for religion it is just as upsetting. Religion has not ruined millions of lives. People have. Do you think, even for a moment, that people would stop killing one another and stop discriminating if there was no religion? Not a chance and you see that everyday. Religion isn't to blame here (unless it's a religion that actively calls for you to murder someone…but that isn't a religion anymore) it's man kind.

Now there are lots of way religion can be used for evil, don't get me wrong I don't trust the church as far as I could throw it, but there are more good people then there are bad.

Personally I don't think gay marriage should be banned, that's a stupid philosophy. I also thing that one should look for God/Goddess/Gods of themselves and not simply believe whatever a person says. People are fallible, all people religious or not.