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fandomsecrets2011-03-26 04:07 pm
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THIS
I know how you fell OP, I know...
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I'm tired of people saying that women shouldn't hope for a fairy tale ending because it's "not realistic" or "anti-feminist" or some such bullshit.
You can be a perfectly independent, competent, self-respecting, pro-active woman and still want to find the person out there that's perfect for you and live happily ever after.
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(Anonymous) 2011-03-26 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)PS No, I'm not srcastic here. That's my true wish. Huh. =(
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(Anonymous) 2011-03-26 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)I have to agree with Schmendrick from The Last Unicorn, though -
"There are no happy endings, because nothing ever ends."
Life is a continual adventure.
Another thing, J. is not perfect. He's not ugly as sin, but he's not particularly attractive. He has fought depression for as long as I've known him. He is ridiculously overprotective of me, seeing me as more fragile than I am - in his defensive, I am disabled - and he is also overprotective of our children.
I don't know what exactly defines a fairy tale "ending" for you. Kind men who love their loves more than life itself are out there, though.
And I don't consider this anti-feminist. I think our four daughters are being raised to have high standards in partners, and I think our son is being raised to have the same high standards. The genders of their parents are a coincidence. I so happen to be a disabled female who values comfort in a relationship, and J. so happens to be a protective providing male. It's not anti-feminist for a female to want what she wants.
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Disney fairy tales, in which everything works out perfectly and no one gets really hurt, which I also want, rational romantic that I am...
Or real folk/fairy tales in which a girl is inevitably raped or physically maimed before the "happy" end (since that's why their Fae tales. The Fae suck).
If it's the latter, than yes, I think you're crazy and kinda masochistic.
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yes some stories have problamatic themes and characters but it was nice to see stories about women endure throughout the centuries in a lot of sexist societies.
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