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fandomsecrets2011-03-26 04:07 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2011-03-26 04:07 pm
[ SECRET POST #1544 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1544 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2011-03-26 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)I have eventually overcome those parts of myself that made me a doormat and learned to at least be assertive along with being the Pollyanna, and you know, while I have come to appreciate how much sometimes people (especially the deadpan snarkers) need an optimist...
It's really tiring sometimes when everyone relies on me all the fucking time to be that person. Sometimes I'm having a bad day, and sometimes I need someone to cheer me up, and sometimes I just don't have the fucking energy to cater to everyone. But I digress. I guess you just have to find your breaking point - and of course do your best to avoid it, because you'll feel bad once you go back to being the nice person again, but when push comes to shove I found I was capable of being the Queen Bitch of the Universe when needed be.
I believe she lives within you too. Use her power wisely, for she is that much stronger because you never tap into it. (Seriously, when I bring up a problem I am 100% more likely to be listened to than any of my coworkers because "She is always so nice, never has a bad thing to say about anyone, and never complains - so if she does, it has to be a BIG DEAL!")