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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-03-26 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #1544 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1544 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2011-03-27 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
The difference is that you can't stop being homosexual. By condemning homosexuality people are basically saying that homosexuals should somehow stop being homosexual, or at least not act on their preferences. You CAN stop being religious, you can reconsider your beliefs, your way of seeing the world - it's not something you ARE forever and ever. I don't hate religious people, but I think of them a bit like I'd think of someone with a serious drug problem - I wish they could find a way out of it and go on to live a healthy, happy life without crazy delusions, as comforting as they may be sometimes.

(Anonymous) 2011-03-27 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Excuse me? So because I'm a religious individual, I am the equivalent of a drug addict in your eyes? I'm sorry, but this is the EXACT SAME PHILOSOPHY that many fundamentalists, homophobes, misogynists, etc. have towards anyone who dares to defy the convention. That somehow, these people are to be pitied, to be rehabilitated, that they are simply deluding themselves and if only they could see the supposed light, they can live healthy, happy, normal lives.

I'm going to tell you the exact fucking thing I tell fundamentalists everywhere--I DO NOT NEED YOU TO SAVE MY SOUL. I do not need you to "wish [I] could find a way out of it". I do not need your pity, and your hope for me to get better, because you know what? I am perfectly happy. And I find it insulting that you would compare a group of people following a particular belief system, to drug addicts, who deliberately put themselves through pain and problems. Because, really everyone, liquefying your insides is the EXACT SAME as believing that our existence is not a coincidence.

Why don't you go tell your fucked up view to the millions of doctors, scientists, Nobel Prize winners, engineers, lawyers, activists, and all the individuals on this planet who have made something of themselves, who happen to be religious? Because clearly, they ALL need help--they're the same as drug addicts after all, and if they're not saved before it's too late, they could end up going down the wrong road!

Oh, and let's not forget Albert Einstein, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Copernicus, Max Planck, Kepler, Farraday, Galileo, Akbar, Sir Isaac Newton, Robert Boyle, Desmond Tutu, and all those other people who believed in God. Clearly, they are ALL deluded individuals as well.

[identity profile] outou.livejournal.com 2011-03-27 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
For some people, believing in God isn't negotiable. I'm an agnostic myself, but some members of my family -- my own father especially, whom I love and respect as an intelligent, reasonable man -- have derived so much strength from their belief that it's a part of who they are. Trying to "reconsider" themselves would be akin to taking away their sight or hearing.

On another note: I've heard the "drug addict" simile applied to homosexuals before, with the same type of fake concern you're using here. "Why can't they just find a way out of it and go on to live a healthy, happy life without crazy relationships?" It's no one's prerogative to tell a gay man or a lesbian that he/she is just deluded, since it's wrong to force someone to change a trait that's unchangeable. As hard as it may be for you to understand, religious faith can be just as unchangeable -- otherwise, what kind of faith would it be?