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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-05 03:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #1554 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1554 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Knut The Polar Bear]


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03.
[Invader Zim]


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04.
[Can't Hardly Wait]


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05.
[Arthur C. Clarke's Odyssey series]


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06.
[Robert Knepper/Prison Break]


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07.
[The Prophecy, Christopher Walken]


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08.
[Skins]


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09.
[In a Fix, on TLC]


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10.
[UK TV/Radio]


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11.
[Homestuck and Puella Magi Madoka Magica]


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12.
[Shameless US]


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13.
[Young Justice]


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14.
[Rose of Versailles]


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15.
[Dr. Horrible]


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16.
[Tangled]


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17.
[Homestuck]


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18.
[Severus Snape/Lolita KompleX]


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19.
[Alien loves Predator]


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20.
[TFL]


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21.
[Regular Show]


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22.
[Summer Wars]


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23.
[Glee]


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24.
[Ace Attorney]


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25.
[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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26.
[Fringe]


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27.
[k-pop]


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28.
[Stargate SG1, Legend of the Seeker, Rizzoli & Isles]


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29.
[Sailor Moon]


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30.
[The Spoony Experiment]


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31.
[MSLN]


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32.
[Todd In The Shadows/Infomania]


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33.
[Roman Polanski and Woody Allen]



Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 120 secrets from Secret Submission Post #222.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - not English ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] magnetic_magpie 2011-04-07 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
I survived being molested - doesn't mean there wasn't a cost. And the cost was a piece of my soul I'll never get back.

And I'm speaking personally, I know some people are...better at moving on than me. I know it's possible to survive. I also know that it's also possible to survive and have days were you curse the fact you did. You can put your life into some kind of order, you can move forward. But...there is damage done. More than twenty years later...and yeah...I recently spent a night up because a movie was so triggering I could NOT sleep. That's why I say sex crimes are worse than murder.

[identity profile] baaing-tree.livejournal.com 2011-04-07 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds like just our different experiences and how we've dealt with them, then. I have never cursed the day I survived; I had long slogs of rough times for sure, but I never wanted to die.

Feel free to tell me to STFU, but have you ever tried EMDR? I remember when my triggers were a lot worse, it helped a lot in bringing down their severity, especially in the "can't sleep due to movie" situations. I realize it doesn't work for everyone, for sure, but...
magnetic_magpie: Mags in a red sweater (Default)

[personal profile] magnetic_magpie 2011-04-07 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
I've only been able to talk about what happened, admit it, in the last six years. And I haven't had health insurance for the last four. So...I haven't had any therapy at all.

And I honestly don't mind talking to others but one - not the place and two - I have to crash for work. But I wouldn't mind talking privately, over PM's if you wanted to continue the discussion?

[identity profile] baaing-tree.livejournal.com 2011-04-07 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, I gotcha. Sounds good to me; I don't work tomorrow. And I hear you on the health insurance; I only just got some this year after a couple year's absence and OMG I CAN AFFORD TO GET HIT BY A CAR NOW! Some therapists, fortunately, are very cash-strapped-friendly.

But you're right, this isn't the place. To PM!