There are a couple things bothering me about this, one calling your friend a fag and two calling yourself a hag.
In my experience, people who want to be "faghags" often fall in love with their gay friends, because for some reason they find gay men appealing. I don't know what the psychology of it is but it's offensive.
It's offensive to gay men to treat them as objects that way and project all your desires onto them.
And it's offensive to women to call yourself a hag that has nothing better to do then be stepped on by someone who will never have an interest in you.
So please, figure out what attracts you to gay men in the first place (do you have low self esteem and only go for guys you can't have?), drop the term fag hag, and just go for a nice platonic friendship the next time you meet a nice gay guy.
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In my experience, people who want to be "faghags" often fall in love with their gay friends, because for some reason they find gay men appealing. I don't know what the psychology of it is but it's offensive.
It's offensive to gay men to treat them as objects that way and project all your desires onto them.
And it's offensive to women to call yourself a hag that has nothing better to do then be stepped on by someone who will never have an interest in you.
So please, figure out what attracts you to gay men in the first place (do you have low self esteem and only go for guys you can't have?), drop the term fag hag, and just go for a nice platonic friendship the next time you meet a nice gay guy.