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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-09 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1558 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1558 ⌋

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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
31. http://i56.tinypic.com/2ajw75e.png

[identity profile] hi-dethtoll.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
who where when why

[identity profile] sarolynne.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
You do realize that shipping isn't compulsory, don't you? You are totally free to tell people you don't ship and then both go on with your lives.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-10 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know... People tend to ask why and think you're weird when you say you dislike something most people enjoy so sometimes it's easier to just lie so they won't ask questions.

[identity profile] sarolynne.livejournal.com 2011-04-10 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not going to argue if that's been your experience, but I haven't seen this be a problem that often in mine.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-10 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, in life in general. Not just in fandom. Although I'm not really active in fandom except to read/watch and review so I don't usually get into any discussions about what I like or dislike and if I do it's with people who I know respect my opinion even if it differs from theirs.
ext_671949: (SuJu > Sorry Sorry Era > Kibum B&W)

[identity profile] vazira.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Why not just say that you don't ship anyone at all? In my opinion it's just so unnecessary to fell like you have to lie about something like that :/ I rarely ever ship any pairings either, but I don't care that everyone else does, and if they think I'm weird for not caring for romance and pairings, then fuck them.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 08:32 pm (UTC)(link)
see this just makes me wonder what fandom you're in. where is all the gen at?

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Excuse me, but what's a "non-consensual relationship"?

[identity profile] judo-creature.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I assume it's a situation in which the relationship between two people involves one person forcing their person/affections/company upon another who has no desire to receive these things from that individual. :|a

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Then don't do it and tell people it's not your thing. The fuck is so hard

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
This might be something to see a professional about. :\

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
This was the first thing that I thought of after reading the secret. Seriously.

[identity profile] flipthefrog.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
+1. This seems like a serious issue that could be, if not solved, at least mitigated through therapy.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this. A lack of interest in fictional representations of happy relationships, that's a preference, it means nothing. But when something as innocent and healthy as real people falling in love causes you such distress that it makes you physically ill, something has gone very wrong in your subconscious. Positive relationships aren't supposed to cause you pain, anon, and vice versa. Please don't resign yourself to this. It shouldn't and doesn't have to be this way. :(

(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I hear you on shipping only disfunctional couples. Just be open about it, anon, you might get some good recs out of it.

[identity profile] no-one-specific.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, I'd say it's a YMMV or YKINMKATO. No problem, OP. Go on doing what you do.

[identity profile] apricot-smudge.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
There was a moment when I thought you had tuberculosis. I have gladness that you don't.

[identity profile] no-one-specific.livejournal.com 2011-04-10 08:17 am (UTC)(link)
Well, no need to worry! I don't have TB.

[identity profile] apricot-smudge.livejournal.com 2011-04-09 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
There is a thing in you, and you must find a way to get it out, or you will die and I don't want a death happening to you.

It's not about this, it's a thing I see.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-10 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Is that you, [livejournal.com profile] karaokegal?

[identity profile] beandelphiki.livejournal.com 2011-04-11 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
Erm, past history of abuse, anon?

I would indeed try to find someone to discuss this with.