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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-09 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1558 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1558 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2011-04-09 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It's always been my pet peeve when people who are less than amazing looking can't stand the thought of being with another less than amazing looking person, just because I find it depressing. It's depressing when amazing looking people do it, too, but in practice, it seems to generate oodles of people chasing after the same one hot person (even when that hot person has nothing in common with those people and arguably nothing else going for them), sometimes ending up bitter (leading to "Nice Guy Syndrome") and I just don't get it.

After many years with the same person, I find appearance matters zip; we're so used to each other you don't think much about the way they look and you see the other person when they're a mess (haven't brushed hair or showered yet, etc.), you'll (hopefully) be with them when they're old and withered...I think those who are just after looks will be disappointed very quickly, and it may even explain why some people feel the need to switch every few months or years to a younger person. I guess if you're just after a one-night stand it's different, but even then, surely there are other factors.