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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-09 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1558 ]


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[identity profile] wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com 2011-04-10 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
and divorce frequently happens if people marry before they're truly ready for it or really know their feelings for the other person are real and durable.

And we totally agree on this. But I just don't appreciate those comments that say that people who are young are automatically gonna fail because they're "not ready." I'm only pointing out that older=smarter/more fit in every single case, and vice versa.

The point I disagree on isn't about the waiting until you're ready and being sure that you are. I simply disagree with the idea that "young people" can't possibly be ready because they're "young." I feel like a lot of people think I'm saying that everyone should marry young because it's better than waiting. I'm not saying that at all. I'm just saying that numerical age is no true indicator of maturity and people should stop looking down on people who want to commit to relationships and have children earlier in life than they think is "smart." Marriages will fail but it doesn't make it any easier for them to succeed when everyone is saying from the beginning that they'll fail. Those doomsayers just irk me.