[ SECRET POST #1562 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1562 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Does it matter? In the end it still boils down to having zero desire to have sex IRL.

[la-petite-singe.livejournal.com]

Well...it matters in the sense that there's a difference between "I don't want to have sex now/soon" and "I will never want to have sex," I guess.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you also question people who call themselves gay/lesbian inquiring as to whether they're just into men/women 'now,' or 'always?'

You realize you are basically asking 'are you sure it's not just a phase?'

[thekeres.livejournal.com]

Exactly.

The good old haven't met the right partner bull shit. It's as if one needs a requisite number of relationships to know one's self. No one asks heterosexual people if they're sure. >:l

[(Anonymous)]

Oh come on. People can't say "we have to accept sexuality as fluid" out of one side of their mouth and then haughtily dismiss the notion of "meeting the 'right' guy/girl' out of the other.

Granted, there's no excuse for OTHER people to just bring that up and question an individual's sexuality out of the blue, but if you initiate or partake in conversation about sexuality and it moves in that direction, trying to villify the other side for questioning something is ridiculous.

[(Anonymous)]

Personally I think it's more that sexuality CAN be fluid, not that it always is for everyone. I always took it to mean that we shouldn't push people into boxes they're not comfortable with and stop enforcing the "either straight or gay, no gray area between" mentality. If someone identifies as asexual, has always been asexual, and doesn't think they might become sexual in the future, yeah, telling them the right person might come along and they might want to have sex is kind of a dick move. But if they don't feel a particular attachment to the label and think they maybe interested in sex at some point, that's where the whole "sexuality can be fluid" thing comes in.

tl;dr: Sexuality CAN be fluid, but this isn't always the case. One can believe this and still (rightly) say that the whole "the right person will come along and you will change your mind" thing is stupid.

[thekeres.livejournal.com]

Where does "sexuality as fluid" come up in this thread? I didn't say it.

I'm confused as to what you're getting at... Are you saying that in a conversation about sexuality it's okay to ask someone to 'prove' they are right about their own sexuality? Or, should I say, are you saying that it's okay to doubt another person's sexuality if you two happen to have a conversation about it?