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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-13 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1562 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1562 ⌋

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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2011-04-13 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I can relate to that last sentence. Took me until I was in my mid-20s before I realized that most people actually do masturbate, because I'd never had any such inclination. And that was the point at which I realized that apparently people weren't "just goofing around" about how badly they wanted to have sex, or that they were seriously bothered by not having sex for two months - I just... didn't have those wants or needs. Until that point I thought I was normal and everyone else was exaggerating for comic effect. XD

And then, lets see, I had a friend who told other people behind my back that I was only calling myself an asexual because I was really a lesbian and closeted. And then, surprise surprise - I met a same-sex partner who actually respected my asexuality, and had no problem being open about having a same-sex partner. The only reason I correct people when they assume I'm a lesbian is because darnit, asexuals need more visibility or no one will EVER believe we exist.

[identity profile] thekeres.livejournal.com 2011-04-13 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I kept hearing friends/family/women on tv bemoaning their lack of sex and I just cannot relate. I thought along the same vein; it had never occurred to me that they were serious.

My sister who believes that while asexuals exist, I just haven't found the right partner; one who is so amazing in bed that I will suddenly realize the error of my ways and crave sex like the rest of the world. -_-

(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 09:24 am (UTC)(link)
And then, surprise surprise - I met a same-sex partner who actually respected my asexuality, and had no problem being open about having a same-sex partner.

That's the problem with being asexual, isn't it? The moment you enter a relationship with someone it's "proof" that you were lying about your sexuality and you're really homo/heterosexual (but never bi, of course, nor pan) and was saying you were something else for the ~attention~

Because you will never know your own sexual orientation as well as a total stranger will, damnit.