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fandomsecrets2011-04-14 04:11 pm
[ SECRET POST #1563 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1563 ⌋
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About your situation... well, I hope you sort it out.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-15 12:09 am (UTC)(link)To be nosy about text on an internet comm: *capitalizes your "w"*
*just bugs me*
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)Of course, if your situation is more along the lines of 'I have zero second thoughts about spending my life with her, but I now have slight crushes on men along with women', then just let her now about it casually, cause, even if it's not a big deal, I'm betting it's something she'd like to know about her spouse to be.
Shit, this sounds way preachier than intended.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
-Please do not enter a marriage without being sure
-Try to sort out your feelings
-Lying is unfair to everyone involved. Please try to tell your fiancee about your feelings.
-Only you know your feelings. This situation might change very little, or it might change everything. It's possible to like both men and women...and you have to figure out if that's your case,or if you think you lean fully towards men but have been ignoring that possibility. In the first case, you might still build a life with your fiancee, if you're both willing, but I still advise honesty. In the second case, the wedding is unfair to both your and her, as it will waste you a lot of time that could have been invested in building relationships with other people...
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A movie cannot change your sexuality but it's got you thinking about what is already there. If you are in love with a man there is no shame in that but you should stop hiding it before you end up ruining any lives.
Best of luck with your situation.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-15 12:43 am (UTC)(link)no subject
BUT DON'T GET MARRIED UNTIL YOU'RE SURE YOU CAN COMMIT TO THIS PERSON. And if you can't commit monogamously but love her anyway, don't get married until she's sure she would be okay with that arrangement.
If you turn out to be secretly gay, but enter into a straight marriage anyway, your wife will be miserable, the guy you're cheating on her with will be miserable (and eventually there WILL be a guy), and YOU will be miserable. Do not do this to these people. Do not do this to yourself. If you love her enough to marry her, then you love her enough to do some self-searching, and to be honest with her about what you find.
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