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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-14 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1563 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1563 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 058 secrets from Secret Submission Post #223.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
16. http://i56.tinypic.com/2it9px.png

[identity profile] urania-chan.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Awww, a "Mannen som elsket Yngve" secret! ♥ Much love!

About your situation... well, I hope you sort it out.

[identity profile] urania-chan.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
One more thing: Obscure? I thought it was a big hit with quite some acclaim?

[identity profile] havemy-heart.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe it didn't change your sexuality, but just got you thinking about it instead. It might simply be a matter of not being 100% hetero like you always thought you were. I hope you can figure things out before you commit to marriage, though. Good luck!

[identity profile] silver-coins.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Mannen som elsket Yngve ♥ I love that book. The movie was okay, but the book really blew me away the first time I read it.

[identity profile] topwithens.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Feeling sorry for your fiancee.

[identity profile] hikari87.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
what's this movie about?

(Anonymous) 2011-04-15 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
To answer, you can always start at IMDB. However, it is a little short on this one: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1114723/
To be nosy about text on an internet comm: *capitalizes your "w"*
*just bugs me*

(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Sort yourself out. Fess up. Call it off. Do anything except enter a marriage with second thoughts just because it's the most logical, or the easiest option.

Of course, if your situation is more along the lines of 'I have zero second thoughts about spending my life with her, but I now have slight crushes on men along with women', then just let her now about it casually, cause, even if it's not a big deal, I'm betting it's something she'd like to know about her spouse to be.

Shit, this sounds way preachier than intended.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding this.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
IDGAF if it's male or female - if you marry someone while thinking you might be in love with someone else, you're a selfish douche and your marriage, and consequently a big chunk of your life, is nothing but a lie. Which you totally deserve, being a douche, but your wife, whose life you're turning into a scam, doesn't.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-04-14 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon,a few things

-Please do not enter a marriage without being sure
-Try to sort out your feelings
-Lying is unfair to everyone involved. Please try to tell your fiancee about your feelings.
-Only you know your feelings. This situation might change very little, or it might change everything. It's possible to like both men and women...and you have to figure out if that's your case,or if you think you lean fully towards men but have been ignoring that possibility. In the first case, you might still build a life with your fiancee, if you're both willing, but I still advise honesty. In the second case, the wedding is unfair to both your and her, as it will waste you a lot of time that could have been invested in building relationships with other people...

[identity profile] shukivengeance.livejournal.com 2011-04-15 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
I second those above who are expressing concerns. Please come clean to your fiancee about this. She deserves to know before making herself legally bound to you.

A movie cannot change your sexuality but it's got you thinking about what is already there. If you are in love with a man there is no shame in that but you should stop hiding it before you end up ruining any lives.

Best of luck with your situation.

(Anonymous) 2011-04-15 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
I LOVE this movie <3

[identity profile] fearless-rabbit.livejournal.com 2011-04-15 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
You might like guys, you might like ladies, you might like guys AND ladies, you might like the idea of being with a guy but the reality of being with a lady, you might think you're supposed to like ladies, but actually like guys. Whatever. I don't know who you are, and that's for you to figure out.

BUT DON'T GET MARRIED UNTIL YOU'RE SURE YOU CAN COMMIT TO THIS PERSON. And if you can't commit monogamously but love her anyway, don't get married until she's sure she would be okay with that arrangement.

If you turn out to be secretly gay, but enter into a straight marriage anyway, your wife will be miserable, the guy you're cheating on her with will be miserable (and eventually there WILL be a guy), and YOU will be miserable. Do not do this to these people. Do not do this to yourself. If you love her enough to marry her, then you love her enough to do some self-searching, and to be honest with her about what you find.

[identity profile] lincolnimp.livejournal.com 2011-04-15 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
mannen som elsket yngve <3