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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-14 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1563 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1563 ⌋

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*Original Comment Deleted for Typo

[identity profile] nota-lone.livejournal.com 2011-04-17 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Calling any part of someone disgusting is still a rather massive rejection. I can see where he took that to mean you were completely disgusted by him. There are more diplomatic ways to phrase that, anon.

In the end, it's not really a problem that you don't particularly need/want this person in your life. I'm definitely a social extrovert who can open up to people, and there are still people I won't particularly miss after college. It doesn't mean I hate them, we just have never clicked and aren't close. That isn't really anyone's fault, it just happens.
You're not damaged and he isn't grotesque. You're just incompatible.

Even if you don't want to repair the friendship, you should probably at least shoot him an email explaining things once the situation dies down. No matter how much you actually cared about him, he's a person and he deserves not to feel disgusting.