[ SECRET POST #1574 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1574 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 07 pages, 173 secrets from Secret Submission Post #225.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ], [ 1 - unreadable ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Comments

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

First of all, that's not exactly what the secret says. It seems to be referring mostly to having sex because the partner is not asexual, which yes, I can totally understand.

And I see where someone can masturbate without having a sexual orientation, just like someone can masturbate to fantasies of something they'd never enjoy in real life. (Maybe not the best comparison but it's all I can think of right now.)

As for the example, I might wonder if the person might fit better as bisexual but if the person doesn't think that I have no right to tell them who/what they are.

But I guess the bottom line is that I don't think asexual people really have to explain or justify themselves to me in the first place.

Re: NF

[ariseishirou.livejournal.com]

I suppose you're right; if someone who has sex, is aroused by it, and enjoys it wants to identify as asexual it's no business but theirs - my only point is how confusing that is for many *sexuals because it makes them sound exactly like us.

Re: NF

[(Anonymous)]

I think what the anon above is getting at, is that they're doing it more for their partners than because they feel the need to have sex.

The biggest difference I've seen between sexual and asexual is sex is generally a considered a *need* for sexuals, where as asexuals, while they might enjoy it, they don't *need* it. The asexuals who masturbate, a lot of them it's basically 'maintenance' more than anything else. Most of the aces I've met, as far as sex is concerned, do it because it fulfills their partner's needs.

Aside note: The largest site concerning Aces [and one of the main references for it] defines an asexual as someone who doesn't feel sexual attraction. Full stop. So I'm not really sure where OP is getting the whole bit about 'desire', if they're going by the most commonly accepted definition. [And yes, I know they may be working from a different definition]