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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-25 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1574 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1574 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-04-26 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
They're not 'damaged'. Only roughly 1/3 of pedophiles were abused as children. Pedophilia is more comparable to a sexual orientation or fetish than a mental 'injury'.

But? "these are bad/wrong urges"? Is actually a great mindset for them to have. It is wrong, and yes they should stop it.

This is a ridiculous thing to say. They can't just 'stop it' - they can prevent themselves from hurting children and avoid children, but they can't just stop having a sexual attraction to them. And it's not the attraction itself that is bad and wrong, it's the damage they would inflict by acting on that attraction. It's a subtle but important difference, and I don't see how it helps anyone to go "you are a horrible evil person for having these urges and unless you stop having them you always will be." That just drives them out to seek help and support from people that are going to encourage them to harm children.