[ SECRET POST #155 ]

[grayout.livejournal.com]

⌈ Secret Post #155 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 114 secrets from Secret Submission Post #023.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!secrets, 0 not!fandom.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Sunday, June 10th, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: Here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[song-of-truth.livejournal.com]

17. Mongolia is the coolest country on that map, anyway. :D

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Exactly, so why should finding it dirty mean someone might want to "go talk to someone" about it like it's weird or wrong?

[lblikesbagels.livejournal.com]

19. lololol, my friends always said I would do that if I ever had male children. Ah haha.

[misheard.livejournal.com]

3. I feel your pain...

18. I think gender-bending is great and fun... But I know it squicks some people, just the same as shota/incest/rape/slash does for some people. They're not going to stop writing/drawing it, but you're under no obligation to read/look at any of it.

[ex-parle.livejournal.com]

I guess it depends on their definition of 'dirty' [OP I mean], hrm. I'm 21 and I couldn't care less for sex, if it happens it happens, sex is sex.

[allsunday.livejournal.com]

Well, sex is dirty on a literal level, sure. When someone says they think "sex is dirty" though, I assume that they're talking about being uncomfortable with the concept of sex itself. And if you're uncomfortable with the idea of sex on a conceptual level, that can indicate anything from possible trauma to basic intimacy issues.

I can completely understand thinking "ewww!" when reading about fluids and squishy sounds though, because let's face it, it's all rather messy. xD;

[(Anonymous)]

Agree with the comment or the secret? Because secret poster is not actually female sry2say :)

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[ex-parle.livejournal.com]

I bet it really squicks WFI. >8D

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[stigmatize.livejournal.com]

Please do not have children.

Re: 19

[offensive.livejournal.com]

IAWTC

[valkyriur.livejournal.com]

Thinking sex is dirty is not synonymous with being asexual.

[hezul.livejournal.com]

iawtc

[allsunday.livejournal.com]

Well, in what way do you think sex is dirty? I was assuming that the poster meant it in a metaphorical fashion, indicating that she has issues with the concept of sexual intimacy. Even if you're a healthy asexual, the idea of sex shouldn't bother you. If you just think it's literally messy though, then yes, it totally is.

[ex-parle.livejournal.com]

MMmm--squishy sounds. :9~

[allsunday.livejournal.com]

...*SQUELCH* xDDD

[ex-parle.livejournal.com]

...*SPLICH*

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[byewonderland.livejournal.com]

MINMEI~! ♥

[telrunya.livejournal.com]

4. DIGITAL DEVIL SAGA. DFSAkldljFJJ ♥♥♥♥

[(Anonymous)]

dirty as in "no thanks and keep your hands to yourself"

I understand it's quite enjoyable but it looks nasty too.

[chaoticchicken.livejournal.com]

4. ...DDS has a fandom? I need to meet these people, immediately.

15. I agree, I agree, I AGREE.

19. ...what arsons said, for the love of god.

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[(Anonymous)]

What's WFI?

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[(Anonymous)]

That sounds like a cute thing to do! As long as you don't write actual fic or think out entire sex scenes, of course.

[prototypical]

True, but it's the first thing that springs to mind.

[allsunday.livejournal.com]

Then that probably means that you're just asexual. Not that I can do a full-on psychological profile from our very brief conversation or anything, but that's what it seems like you're saying. As long as you don't think there's anything wrong with the act itself - you just have no personal wish to participate in it - then there's nothing wrong with you at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Not OP, but:

What's wrong with thinking it's dirty in the first place, on any level? Does everyone have to go out and have sex? It's taken far too lightly these days in the first place. Sex is primal, animalistic. I would say it is hardly ever 'beautiful' or spiritual or whatever. That kind of thinking doesn't have to stem from trauma or intimacy issues. Besides which, some people just have no sex drive anyway. It happens.