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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-09 07:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #1588 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1588 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yes nothing wrong with thinking something in secret as long as we don't allow these thoughts to consume us or to affect our behavior, but of course the daughter heard. I don't think ugly words only affect those directly involved at all. They really aren't pleasant to hear for anyone, trust me--maybe the daughter is close friends with older or heavier people, for example, or maybe she just has more empathy than her mother (or maybe she has an older heavier male fetish and thinks the same scene is "hot"...and welp).

I have to work for a doctor who is constantly talking about the "stupid" people who come in his office for one thing or another, talking shit about the elderly, the overweight, those of different ethnic backgrounds, the working class, etc. Do they ever hear? No. Does it really hurt my opinion of his character, especially his understanding and charitableness? Yes, to the point where I outright dislike him.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-11 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I think there's a very large difference between someone constantly belittling others and someone having a one-word kneejerk reaction to something.