I don't think the OP is talking about those people. The OP is just saying that people who have those kinks shouldn't use "your kink is not my kink" to belittle the experiences of people who have had those experiences and are horrified at the idea that they might be a turn-on for someone.

tl;dr You have a right to your kink but someone else also has the right to be horrified that it's your kink, especially if the very idea of it is triggering for them.