There is no excuse to be an asshole to a victim of abuse or rape just because you're feeling judged

lol. So abuse and rape victims are so frail you can't call them out on their bullshit? Please. Most, if not all, people have experience some form of abuse during their life and amazingly most people still manage to not take everything personally and judge other people for their harmless kinks. We can't go around treating someone like porcelain just because they experienced something awful. Everyone does, it's part of life. As long as people warn for extreme stuff with trigger warnings and put it behind a cut I don't see any valid reason to complain about this.

Also; what about those of us who have "abuse/rape/pedophilia/insert other bad kinks" because we experienced it? Are we allowed to feel angry about being judged or is it only the "pure, innocent" survivors that it's not okay to be "mean" towards? Cause being called an abuser for liking something as a result of abuse seems way more damaging than telling someone not to read something if they find it offensive.