Being raped or abused doesn't give you a free pass to be an asshole to everyone else. And I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT merely saying "well, I think this kink is disgusting and it offends me," THAT'S OKAY. What I am talking about, and it happens quite frequently, especially on here, is someone getting personally offended by something and deciding to get on their moral high horse and tell everyone who has a certain kink that they are all horrible people who should all be ashamed of themselves. That's not okay, even if the person was a victim of rape or abuse.