I ask you to reread my second paragraph, which explains that just because plenty of sfd_anoners are just trolling when they comment in other places, it doesn't mean there aren't also those who are arguing in earnest.

To your last paragraph: yes, I agree with that. But I have honestly seen people (mostly people on [Bad username or site: @ livejournal.com]) complain that warning for dubcon and noncon is kinkshaming, so that's where I'm coming from.