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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-16 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1595 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1595 ⌋


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[identity profile] vivi314.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
well educate me on how illegitimate it is because i find it pretty damn valid :V genuinely curious here, i've had the term explained to me and it made perfect sense.

[identity profile] communist-nazi.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Because it's way way way too broad of a topic to brand it 'slut' shaming. Everyone has a different opinion of what a slut is (though it should be obvious if you have half a brain or are not a slut in denial) and then when you run to the rescue to every girl that gets branded a slut you blur that line. I just really fucking hate that word. Like I hate the 'trigger warning' word too. That shits stupid, yo,

[identity profile] vivi314.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
IDK. While generalizing, it's good to have a term to use when someone gets on a woman's case for enjoying casual sex, because it's usually what provokes the "slut" name-calling. It's a good...I dunno, portemanteau term? Ugh sorry, I lack vocabulary in english.
IA that there's a problem with generalizing that term though. Then again, I really wish we'd cut "slut" from usage tbqh. Feel free to disagree, but yeah, really not comfy with that word and everything it represents. Though you're right at the term having been used in many different ways. Haha I'm sorry, I'm not making much sense but
TL;DR politely disagreeing but understanding why you don't like it and the fact that people have many different ideas of what to associate to "slut", even though IMO it's overall related to the idea that woman's sexuality has a negative connotation.

As for trigger warnings...well, I am in no posture to judge at all about how effective they are in general, so I won't delve into that. I'm sure that people have very varying sensitivities and that the warning about triggers can help some out!

[identity profile] ladyairy.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
"a slut in denial"
WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN
I mean you're obviously a troll but
WHAT

[identity profile] communist-nazi.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really not a troll. I just hate sluts. OOPS SORRY FOR NOT BEING ~~~OPENLY SEXUAL~~~~

[identity profile] ladyairy.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
haha, dude, not everybody has to be sexual. buuut not everyone who is sexual is an EBIL HOOR.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
you're like 14 right?

your blog is really annoying and angsty so i'm assuming you are like 14 and eventually you will know better. i know when i was younger and stupider i used to rant about sluts and whatnot, so i'm gonna try not to hold it against you.

[identity profile] communist-nazi.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 19 and thanks for going into my blog to base your assumptions off it. I've been posting there since I was around 13 and I have bipolar disorder but you know what lets all go off and think we know what the fuck we are talking about hm?

Anyways I digress this comment had nothing to do with the post.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
welp. i stand corrected.
karel: (lafayette; running from town to town)

[personal profile] karel 2011-05-17 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
I used to rant about sluts and how ~irresponsible~ and ~childish~ they were and how much they would ~certainly~ regret everything later. turned out I was just jealous of them for having guilt-free sex when I wasn't.

I MEAN OBVIOUSLY THIS ISN'T THE CASE FOR EVERYONE, but once I got over my jealousy, I lost that animosity

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Nice job resorting to an ad hominen.

I guess you really don't have any validity to your arguments.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
why do you expect me to respond to "THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SLUT SHAMING" with a valid argument? i won't bother.