[ SECRET POST #1620 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1620 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae wo Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai]



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02.
[Hetalia]


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03.
[Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha]


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04.
[Michael Silas/Asiel Hardison, Lady Gaga's dancers]


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05.
[Tiger & Bunny]


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06.
[Evangelion]


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07.
[Zero Punctuation]


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08.
[The Catherine Tate Show]


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09.
[Grimgrimoire]


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10.
[wonderful days, guyver, cowboy bebop, texhnolyze, togainu no chi, black lagoon, samurai champloo, aishiteruze baby, tenjo tenge]


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11.
[X-Men: First Class]


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12.
[Tales of the Abyss]


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13.
[Human Target]


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14.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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15.
[Masterchef Australia]


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16.
[Sucker Punch]


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17.
[Mystique]


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18.
[Workaholics]


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19.
[Mark Reads]


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20.
[Jamie Campbell Bower ]


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21.
[Hey Arnold!]












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22. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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23. [SPOILERS for Gintama]



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24. [SPOILERS for Kamen Rider Kabuto]



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25. [SPOILERS for Loveless]



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26. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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27. [SPOILERS for Mockingjay]



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28. [SPOILERS for Kung Fu Panda 2]

















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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con]



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30. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Game of Thrones]


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31. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for transphobia?]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[SPN]


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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-injury, suicide]

[Manic Street Preachers]






Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #231.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

Comments

[10littlebullets.livejournal.com]

Er, I'm getting something more like "I resent that since I was slightly more functional, I had to be your emotional support while getting no support myself." It's a pretty natural feeling IMO, as long as you acknowledge that it's an irrational response and not actually the other person's fault. Which the OP does. It's a secret, it's not like they're saying it to their friend's face.

[(Anonymous)]

That's true, and my response was probably a little more kneejerk than was wise. This was a terrible situation to be in all around and I'm glad OP's feeling better, I can't exactly begrudge anyone their occasional nasty thoughts as long as they're not hurting anyone.

[10littlebullets.livejournal.com]

Yeah, and I probably should have clarified at the outset that "resentment is natural" doesn't mean "yeah baby, your resentment is 100% valid and justified, go ahead and hate her because her problems were worse than yours." Just that you shouldn't feel guilty for feeling it as long as you can deal with it maturely and recognize how much of it is justified and how much of it is irrational/not your friend's fault.

(And okay, maybe a bit kneejerk on my part too--was in a situation similar to the OP's, except my friend was treating me like absolute crap and too deep in the hole to even realize it. It wasn't her fault but it hurt like hell.)