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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-07-12 08:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #1652 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1652 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Burlesque, Christina Aguilera]


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[Pretty Little Liars]


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[Suburban Knights]


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[Veronica Mars]


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[Glee]


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[Harold Lloyd]


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[5 Days a Stranger]


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[The Laws of Magic]


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[The Land Before Time VII: The Stone of Cold Fire]


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[Mass Effect]


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[Colonymired, Blocklocked and Team Paradox]


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[David Bowie, The Hunger Games]


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(Anonymous) 2011-07-13 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
OP here! I'm pretty sure genderqueer is weird for everybody, because as far as I know, there are pretty much infinite ways to be genderqueer. In my case, I'm biologically female, and I primarily identify as female (feminine pronouns and all that), but at the same time I'm just not... a girl, I guess. I feel really weird and uncomfortable when people call me things like "sis" or similar things. As I first started to describe the way I was feeling to the few people I have told, I basically said "I'm a girl, who feels like a boy, who feels like a girl." So while I tell people I'm a girl, and I'm biologically female, there's this part of me that is unmistakably male for one reason or another. I can't really describe it other than that's just... well, how I feel! I'm a mixture of the two.

That probably doesn't help much, but I thought I would give a little description nonetheless. I can't really say how I "feel" like a boy or a girl; I just sort of do. It feels wrong to say I'm one or the other.

Original anon

(Anonymous) 2011-07-13 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
I feel really weird and uncomfortable when people call me things like "sis" or similar things
I can relate to this. Because I'm female (whose tastes generally run to the more masculine side of things and who spent a good bit of youth feeling "wrong") and words like "sis" put me on edge, too. But for me, I realized that particular thing was just that I don't like the way the word sounds. There are just some combinations of letters that are like nails on chalkboards for me ("moist" is apparently a similar word for a lot of people).

But hey, I'm me and you're you, and that's okay.

Re: Original anon

(Anonymous) 2011-07-13 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
I can't even stand "Ma'am". *shudder*

OP again

(Anonymous) 2011-07-13 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually really like "ma'am," but I live in the southern US so that's probably why. I like 'sir' just as much, though--they command a sense of respect, I feel. But yeah, I can understand that. In a fit of irony, pronouns like 'xir' and 'zhe' really bother me, just from a 'this sounds kind of terrible to my ears/brain' perspective.

I was just adding that bit about 'sis' to sort of highlight a random point; it doesn't hold true for everyone, of course. But for me, it feels wrong, because people are deliberately avoiding calling me 'bro' in order to use it. Just a weird thing!