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⌈ Secret Post #1655 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Secret of NIMH/Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH]

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[Professor Layton and the Mask of Miracle]

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[Homestuck]

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[Sailor Moon, Yu-Gi-Oh!]

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[True Grit]

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[Aqua Teen Hunger Force]

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[Pretty Little Liars]

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[I'm From Barcelona]

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[SJR]

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]

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(Lindsay Ellis/Channel Awesome)

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[Teahouse]

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[HIM (band), Bam Margera]

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[Mahou Sensei Negima!]

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[Russell T. Davies]

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[Britney Spears]

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[Rome]

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[Channel Awesome/That Guy With the Glasses]

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[Voltron Force, Last Exile]

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[Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones]

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[Victorious]

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[Glee]

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[Eerie Cuties]

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[Last of the Summer Wine]

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[The League of Gentlemen]

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[Channel Awesome/That Guy With the Glasses]

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[Agora]

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[Doctor Who]

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[Hannah Murray]

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[Jem]

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[Florence + the Machine (Cosmic Love)]

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33. [ SPOILERS for Hanna (movie)]

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34. [ SPOILERS for Supernatural]

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35. [ SPOILERS for Scott Pilgrim (movie)]

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36. [ SPOILERS for Sheryl: Kiss in the Galaxy]

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37. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who]

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38. [ TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[A:tLA]

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39. [ TRIGGER WARNING for incest]

[The Borgias]

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40. [ TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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41. [ TRIGGER WARNING for domestic abuse]

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42. [ TRIGGER WARNING for incest]

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43. [ TRIGGER WARNING for stalking]

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44. [ TRIGGER WARNING for child sexual abuse ]

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you are asking why an abuse victim was abused?

yeah no thats not a valid question

also, its called "grooming" look it up

I'm not asking why she was abused, I'm asking why she consented to it (in before abuse victims can't give consent, you know what I mean). Seeing as the show as meant for an older audience, I assumed she'd have been at least in her teens. So I was asking if she felt like she had to do it, or if it was just the memory of her stepdad asking, sheesh. Though according to the anon above, it was apparently marketed to a younger audience.

a child, or even a teenager's sense of judgement doesnt help exonerate the actions of an abuser, even if they did consent. Its a power game, doesnt matter whats at stake.

You sound you are trying to make what happened to her less significant because she was a teenager. And if she was coerced into consenting when she was a teenager, what of it? Theres a very high chance she had already been through a long cycle of abuse that led her to think her situation was normal.

I'm not trying to make it less significant; my full sympathies are with the OP. (and as someone pointed out, the wording makes it seem like they didn't do it, but was just asked) But because teenagers are generally more aware than small children, and from the secret it seemed like an out-of-the-blue request, it seemed odd to me that they would accept it, should they have. But as you said, they may have been through abuse before. There's also the possibility that she was younger than I am thinking.

Just to reiterate: these questions aren't being asked with a "durr hurr u so dum, y u do that" thought in mind. I'm not trying to belittle the OP's experience.

It likely wasn't out of the blue. It doesn't make it any less traumatizing. Abusers aren't typically one-time offenders. They don't just abuse once then they're done.

Thanks for being so articulate here. I've been trying to formulate a response but all I can do is keyboard mash in anger.

A VICTIM IS FORCED, NOT ASKED>

SHE WAS A WILLING PARTICIPANT
SHE AGREED TO DO IT
SHE IS IN THE WRONG TOO

This makes me sick, the OP is simply looking for a pity party and using "molestation" as a ploy to get it. She agreed to do this stuff, it wasn't forced, it wasn't rape....therefore SHE DESERVES THE CONSEQUENCES

If someone told me they would pay me $1,000,000,000 to kill someone and I DID IT WILLINGLY would you blame the person who PAID ME or THE ONE WHO COMMITED THE FUCKING MURDER?

I don't even know how to reply to you.

Emotional abuse/manipulation, abuse of power as a trust figure? Honestly, I..I don't even.

...Why? What is the matter with you?

Wow. You're a real charmer. No one deserves to be molested by someone they love and trust. If you honestly believe that then there is something very wrong with you.

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