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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-07-15 07:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #1655 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1655 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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02.
[The Secret of NIMH/Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH]


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03.
[Professor Layton and the Mask of Miracle]


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04.
[Homestuck]


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05.
[Sailor Moon, Yu-Gi-Oh!]


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06.
[True Grit]


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07.
[Aqua Teen Hunger Force]


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08.
[Pretty Little Liars]


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09.
[I'm From Barcelona]


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10.
[SJR]


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11.
[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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12.
(Lindsay Ellis/Channel Awesome)


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13.
[Teahouse]


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14.
[HIM (band), Bam Margera]


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15.
[Mahou Sensei Negima!]


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16.
[Russell T. Davies]


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17.
[Britney Spears]


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18.
[Rome]


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19.
[Channel Awesome/That Guy With the Glasses]


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20.
[Voltron Force, Last Exile]


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21.
[Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones]


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22.
[Victorious]


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23.
[Glee]


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24.
[Eerie Cuties]


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25.
[Last of the Summer Wine]


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26.
[The League of Gentlemen]


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27.
[Channel Awesome/That Guy With the Glasses]


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28.
[Agora]


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29.
[Doctor Who]


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30.
[Hannah Murray]


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31.
[Jem]


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32.
[Florence + the Machine (Cosmic Love)]
















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33. [ SPOILERS for Hanna (movie)]



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34. [ SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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35. [ SPOILERS for Scott Pilgrim (movie)]



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36. [ SPOILERS for Sheryl: Kiss in the Galaxy]



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37. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who]


















[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]





















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38. [ TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[A:tLA]


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39. [ TRIGGER WARNING for incest]

[The Borgias]


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40. [ TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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41. [ TRIGGER WARNING for domestic abuse]



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42. [ TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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43. [ TRIGGER WARNING for stalking]



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44. [ TRIGGER WARNING for child sexual abuse ]
















Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 0 - take it to comments ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] xbenji65.livejournal.com 2011-07-16 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, I think it was a valid question.
The people jumping at you are morons. Acting like you're an abuser.

[identity profile] thewondersmith.livejournal.com 2011-07-16 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who's been abused, what she did was incredibly dismissive. By questioning someone when they said they've been abused (did it REALLY happen, why did you LET it happen, etc) she's perpetuating the belief that hey, you know what, victims really shouldn't be taken at face value.

But yeah, no, I'm just a moron, right.

[identity profile] xbenji65.livejournal.com 2011-07-16 08:51 am (UTC)(link)
Well I'm sorry you feel that way, but that's not what anon was going for. At all.

[identity profile] thewondersmith.livejournal.com 2011-07-16 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for the fauxpology, bro.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-16 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
This is late, but I think you're misinterpreting the question. I wasn't asking it in a way to express that I think it didn't happen, but I didn't understand why someone would accept a deal like that, or how damaging it would be. As someone who hasn't been abused, it's not exactly my forte to think about things in the way that abuse victims would. As the other anons and the OP have explained about how the mindset works, I realize now what was happening.

I've already apologized for the way it was worded; I agree that looking at the second part it makes it seem like I was taunting the OP for what happened, but that honestly was not my intention. I'm sorry for offending you, and I get that I must have rubbed you the wrong way, but I wasn't trying to victim blame or place any responsibility on the OP. I was trying to understand what exactly was going on, to get a perspective from the OP about what happened. I didn't exactly mean for this to turn into a huge chain of comments.