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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-07-26 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #1666 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1666 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Posting these up without comment threads so you can see them at least, if LJ stops breaking. Working on getting the threads up



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[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-07-27 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)
The secret says that after voicing her opinions, the girlfriend wanted them to break contact (and succeeded). NOT that her friend wanted to break contact, but that he did so on request of his girlfriend. That's a different situation.

If someone voiced concerns about my relationship - it would very much depend on how they would say it. If they'd be rude about it, I'd tell them it's none of their business. If they're genuinely concerned but wrong - I would very clearly sort things out and point out their interpretation of my relationship is wrong.

For example, I do get negative comments about "my boyfriend not wanting to marry me" - but if you know that I very much do not want to be married, it becomes a very different context. It goes from a situation where a person thinks I'm a disadvantaged party, to a situation where they know we negotiated it as equals.

In no way do I think one negative comment warrants throwing away a years-long friendship.