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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-07-30 03:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #1670 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1670 ⌋


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Notes:

Going to be short posts this week, LJ being down half the week means less secrets total, sorry about that.

Secrets Left to Post: 09 pages, 204 secrets from Secret Submission Post #239.
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(Anonymous) 2011-07-31 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
It means you should stop worrying so much about trying to live your friend's life for her and let her figure out how and why she's with the guy and if he's good for her. I understand that you feel abandoned, but you can't have a one-on-one friendship where all the attention is focused on you forever, people grow up and develop love interests. You talk about how you're ok alone, but you're essentially turning your friendships into relationships and treating them as such; so when they take their natural course and your friends start developing their lives you get jealous that you're not included as some sort of partner. You need to work on yourself and developing a wider friend group so that so much of your personal well-being doesn't rest on whether one friend is devoting all of her attention to you.