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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-09 08:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #1680 ]

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[identity profile] fairhearing.livejournal.com 2011-08-10 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, anon, I hear you.

The thing I would disagree with is that a LOT of fangirls have the same power. Like, six months to a year of regular exercise and two weeks of watching beauty tutorials on youtube would basically make any young woman, sans, like, a serious facial birth defect, into someone that a guy -- even a celebrity guy!! -- would be pleased to bang.

It's the confidence that's lacking in a lot of fangirls, or maybe the desire to change themselves so completely for something that's admittedly shallow as hell, but still. They shouldn't complain, or even bemoan their LACK OF CHANCE. Dudes don't have the highest standards, lol. And they really like confidence.

It's just not the hardest thing to have sex with pretty much 90% of straight guys if you're a determined young lady is all I'm saying, lol.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-10 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, I agree and I do think I phrased or maybe judged it wrong. Any fangirl has as much a chance as me or anyone else, providing they put in the effort. It's just so many don't and sit around complaining about any girl they see their celeb with.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-10 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
This might be a bit of an exaggeration. When I was in high school I was very fit (year-round competitive athlete) and I did my make-up tastefully everyday for school. That said, I still had acne problems, my same generally unattractive (yet not deformed) facial elements and dimensions, a weird tan from athletic clothes, and a nerdy demeanor.
I do agree that people should be confident, and I think it's worth it to take pride in your appearance if that's something you feel like you value. I have zero confidence with guys, but that works because (intellectually) I don't want to "be successful" with them in any sense.

[identity profile] fairhearing.livejournal.com 2011-08-10 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
That said, I still had acne problems, my same generally unattractive (yet not deformed) facial elements and dimensions, a weird tan from athletic clothes, and a nerdy demeanor.

The only thing holding you back there was the "demeanor." I'm not saying women can automatically be perfect if they try hard enough, I'm saying it's confidence which is a good 60-75% of what will ~bag~ you a guy for the night if that's what you want.

And contrary to popular opinion, you don't get confident after you get hot. You can have all manner of "flaws" but once you're past a pretty low "basic hotness" threshold -- which you were -- being witty and confident and assertive is really all it takes. To fuck a man of your choice, mind, not necessarily much beyond that.

Of course, BEING CONFIDENT is much easier said than done, but still.

Guys really don't care about the "flaws" women seem to think they care about, js.