[ SECRET POST #1680 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1680 ⌋


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Comments

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

I know why she's not interested in me & I don't blame her for it because theyre things that neither of us can change [tho I'd be more than willing to try for her

DO NOT CHANGE YOURSELF. Working on increasing your maturity and confidence is always a good thing, but if you end up changing yourself in ways for the benefit of another person, you will only resent them when it doesn't work out.

I really am afraid I'll never find someone so perfect for me again & I think that's may be part of why I keep holding out.

Maybe focus a little less on the 'perfect for you' part and think of how the two of you fit together? All couples are about a fitting-together dynamic, not just one of them being perfect for the other. I've been in several physical/emotional relationships since falling in love with my fandom partner, and let me tell you, there ARE others out there. Just keep your eyes open for that sort of 'type' which works well with you.

Holy teal-deer, Batman.

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

Fortunately I'm able to get out of bed and I know how rediculous I'm being, tho that only helps so much. I'm not completely wrecked, though much more than I wish I was. I don't think I need a therapist, tho not like I could even afford one if I did. Still talking about it to someone is nice, especially someone who has gone thru this before. I don't suppose you'd be up for letting me talk to you some more? I have friends who have listened to me, but I find it hard to open up to friends for some reason... complete strangers tho? BRING IT. If not, that's toltaly okay too, and I appreciate just these teal deer comments. I would never change myself for her in ways that I wasnt comfortable with, but she makes me want to be a better person in weird ways that I'd never expect myself to want to be, so I mostly mean changing those ways...

anyway I can totally know why you wouldnt wnat to listen to me ramble on about some girl you dont know (& also you dont know me) but if you're up for it, I know I'd appreciate it... You could make up a fake email or whatever if you want.

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm just glad I haven't frightened you off with MASSIVE WALL 'O TEXT.

I totally understand about the not being able to afford stuff- luckily my therapist at the time was supplied through the school and thus absolutely free. Since leaving school I've had a lot more trouble finding one that's within my financial reach.

I'd love to talk more and I really would like to hear more about your fandom friend, but I have to admit I'm getting rather sleepy and wouldn't be all that articulate if I pushed it tonight- if anything, my experiences have taught me that I will say stupid shit when tired. Would you mind if I posted a tinychat room to meet at tomorrow on this thread (early afternoon or late evening), when I'd be a better chat partner? (or maybe you have some other preference? I'd prefer staying anon if possible but if not c'est la vie.) I get you about the reluctance with opening up to friends- I also open up to strangers far more naturally. Bring on the anonymizing!

Hurrah for wanting to be a better person! My fandom partner is really like that for me as well, and I'm extremely grateful for it. <3

-your friendly neighbourhood anon.

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

I made an anon email address you could email if that's okay: mranonlj@gmail.com Granted that'd require you to use your email or make an anon one, too. If that doesn't work for you, let me know. I don't mind telling you who I am off FS, I just don't want someone/her to fine me here.

I really apprecaite this either way.

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

Sounds good to me! I'll email you when I wake up tomorrow, promise.

You're the OP of this secret; that alone means you're more than welcome to a modicum of dignified privacy. Me, I'm just paranoid. :)

Re: just some advice from your friendly neighbourhood anon.

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you. I'll try to remember to check it! I'm sure I will but if not just drop a note to this comment thread reminding me, cause I pinned it so I get notifications. Thanks so much. FAITH IN HUMANITY RESTORING.....