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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 314 secrets from Secret Submission Post #242.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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OP

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Ha! I'm too much of a pussy to say your exact wording in RL to her, but you're right, this is something I should talk to her about. There's a few of our other friends who've noticed this about her, but we've pretty much turned the blind eye to her behaviour so far (in the past, she wasn't actively harassing people, just mocking them behind their backs). It's only in the past year or so since she's discovered online drawing/chatting boards that it's gotten this bad.

Re: OP

[identity profile] masked-creator.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
If you have a few other friends who agree with you about what's been going on, you could always get everybody into a group chat. Before you talk to her about the problem though, just explain you're not trying to gang up on her, just that you're not the only one who believes her behavior is getting to the point of where you can't ignore it anymore because it's damaging your friendship. The real key to approaching this kind of problem is being assertive.