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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 314 secrets from Secret Submission Post #242.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

Re: Missing the point entirely, but...

[identity profile] hoggle2807.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Read the comment again. Clearly I am talking about consensual sex. So stop grinding your axe on me.

Re: Missing the point entirely, but...

[identity profile] silver-coins.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 04:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I know. Hence my comment. If we use different words to differentiate between vriginity taken by force and virginity given consensually it's hella awakrd for everyone who was raped. It means they have to either lie and say it was consensual, lie and say they're a virgin when they don't feel like one OR say they were raped and ruin everyone's day because of a simplye question. Why is that nescassary when we already have a word that everyone understands and uses?

Re: Missing the point entirely, but...

[identity profile] hoggle2807.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 04:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Funny, I wouldn't call virginity status questions simple things that are trotted out by pollsters and random people on the street. Or even friends. Do you frequently head to parties where the conversation turns to "Hey, everybody! Wehen and how did you first have sex!" It's NOT a simple question. It's a personal question with history, whether you gave it up or had it taken from you.

But this is getting ridiculous. Because nowhere did I say "We need to BAN THIS PHRASE FOREVER!!!" I said, paraphrasing, obviously, "this one is nicer, so let's try using it." It's not like one comment on the internet obligates the world to follow it.

Re: Missing the point entirely, but...

[identity profile] silver-coins.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you frequently head to parties where the conversation turns to "Hey, everybody! Wehen and how did you first have sex!"

Yes. Oh, yes. I most certainly do. I'm 19 and starting when I was 13 that's been a standard question on parties/when people get drunk. Play truth or dare? It comes up. I've never type of games? Without question. Maybe I grew up differently than you, but in locker rooms, parties, places with alcohol it's a pretty standard question.

That having been said I'm not particularly involved in this either. You came up with an opinion and I disagreed that it's a good idea. That's all. It's a public forum, if you don't want replies then don't comment.

Re: Missing the point entirely, but...

[identity profile] hoggle2807.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 05:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I never said I "didn't want replies" but if it makes you feel all grown up to school me on internet commentry, more power to you.