[ SECRET POST #1716 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1716 ⌋


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Comments

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

But that's just your interpretation of it. The implication isn't there at all. The demisexual community is very intolerant of slut shaming.

[(Anonymous)]

Not from what I've seen, no.

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

Personally I've yet to come across demis who slut shame but assholes are everywhere, so it's not that I don't believe you. But some rotten apples shouldn't define an entire community.

[(Anonymous)]

Either demisexuality is a sexual orientation or it isn't and if it is then you can't say "the demisexual community is intolerant of" anything. Individual demisexuals are intolerant of slut-shaming. Other individual demisexuals engage in slut-shaming.

So. Is it a sexual orientation? Or is it not?

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

But the demi community calls out slut shaming and several members are active in slutwalks. Let's not forget that every community has members that don't quite grasp the idea (and of course let's not forget trolls), but they don't define the entire group.

[(Anonymous)]

Big deal. The homosexual community calls out racism, but there are still a lot of racist gay people. (And I'm saying this as a queer myself.) The transgender community calls out sexism, but there are a lot of sexist trans men. ET FUCKING CETERA.

And of course the ~demisexual community~ calls out slut-shaming. That's because their label is by definition slut-shaming and they need some kind of legitimacy to act like they really aren't sex-negative, oh no!

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

That is the point. Rotten apples etc etc, do not condemn the entire group.

The label is by definition lack of primary sexual attraction which means they are incapable of feeling attraction towards people they aren't emotionally bonded with.

You are totally not accusing people for something they cannot control, oh no!

da

[(Anonymous)]

You can control calling yourself a slut-shaming title.

Re: da

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

Except it is not a slut-shaming title.

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

Except for the part where it is.

Re: da

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

Cute, you're not even trying anymore, anon. :)

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

I have said repeatedly that this thing you are doing is offensive. I have presented evidence outline that offense, and phrased it in a variety of different ways.

The only response you have given is "I don't see a problem, therefore there is no problem." So since you are unable to get over your privilege long enough to have a real discussion, yes I've given up.

Re: da

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

I and some others in here have explained repeatedly why it isn't slut shaming, but your density prevents you from getting over your prejudice long enough and consider that, maybe, not everything is always about oppression.

Interesting that you'd assume I identify as demi though when I have never once stated that. And, privilege? You really went there? Oh, anon. If only you knew.