[ SECRET POST #1716 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1716 ⌋


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Comments

[a-better-thing.livejournal.com]

I have seen examples of people simultaneously claiming to be demi/asexual alongside discussion of being turned on by erotica, which on my understanding of the definitions has always confused me, and which was what I was basing my enquiry on. However, I do not assume (and I'm sorry if I gave the impression that I do) that this is the case for all demisexuals.

Thank you for your response, I'm sorry if I came across as attacking. I'm honestly not trying to judge what anyone identifies as, I was simply confused but I realise now that it's not really my place to be demanding explanations from anyone so I'm very sorry for that. I hope I didn't offend you.

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

There is nothing wrong with asking explanations if something isn't clear to you! I wasn't passive aggressively telling you to mind your own business, I hope that's not what it sounded like! And you didn't come across as attacking at all (I was referring to all the anons in this thread who're hating on the label). I also tried my best to not sound defensive/pissed in my response, but admittedly the discussion has worn me out, so I guess I failed.

No hard feelings? :)

[a-better-thing.livejournal.com]

Oh none at all :) You didn't come across as aggressive, I just got worried because I realised I might have come across as sounding like 'Justify your feelings to me!!' which wasn't what I was aiming for at all.

FTR, I'd like to say that I think your responses and patience in this thread have been stellar, and I'm sorry that some people are giving you a hard time.

<3

[ethereal-sky.livejournal.com]

Thanks! :) To be honest, I really wish I didn't get involved, because no amount of explaining will chill the spirits of those who feel demisexuality equals slut-shaming, so this whole debate is really just a huge waste of time.