fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #1718 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1718 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[FF7]

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[Home Improvement]

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[Thor]

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[The Borrower Arrietty]

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[Eerie Indiana]

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[The Secret Garden]

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[Alex Rider]

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[Air Bud]

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[Beauty and the Beast TV series]

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[poupeegirl]

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[Cybersix, Ouran High School Host Club, Cowboy Bebop, Mulan, Alanna, Monstrous Regiment, Pitch Black, Leviathan, Hourou Musuko]

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[America's Next Top Model - Cycle 11]

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[high school of the dead]

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[Rescue Special Ops]

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[Friends with Benefits]

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[Merlin]

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[Absolutely Fabulous]

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49. [TRIGGER WARNING for depression, suicide]

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50. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]

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51. [TRIGGER WARNING for violence, bullying]

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Well, if it's because they attacked you physically, then I'd classify it as self-defense even if it goes beyond what they were trying to do to you. I guess I assumed emotional bullying when I read the secret, but by all means, ~~if someone tries to kill you, you try to kill them right back~~ if you're antagonized physically, it's all well and good to retaliate as long as you don't cause any permanent damage.

That's my stance on things, anyway.

Attacking would be too strong a word. I definitely escalated it though, won't pretend it was some "they were throwing punches first" thing, I punched first in the latter case. It's nothing something I have had to deal with in years, though I suppose there are some versions of emotional antagonism where I might have responded that way. Like if somebody insulted my grandmother or something? That's kinda harder to say though, cause that didn't happen.

I will say the folks I eventually hauled off on didn't just start with physical antagonism, and the second case I'd put up with shit for one week and had a big ass "not again" chip on my shoulder.

I think the problem is, people bottle it up till they wanna shoot up their school or crap. I don't think I ever had a more violent fantasy then whacking somebody, probably cause before it went beyond that I'd whack somebody. I imagine the key to having that not become unhealthy is to keep a level perspective on when that's necessary. Being the crazy kid that goes off on the drop of a hat just makes you a target for anybody who wants a show, or will get you hauled off and/or expelled. Since I've only had my own experience, I can't tell others when that time is, though by the time it's physical I'd say it's time. My whole goal was "not worth it" in that if you fucked with me I'd make it clear that I wasn't worth it, the pain would outweigh any amusement.

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