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fandomsecrets2011-09-24 03:43 pm
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(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)Mostly, I was just wondering if it was me that was different or if its a 'kids these days' that are different. But also mostly just wondering why the fuck I had such a huge ass mother effing crush on Matthew Lillard...of all people...
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Kids in those days had young celebrities to crush on; kids these days have young celebrities to crush on. Some of the kids in those days crushed on older celebrities; some of the kids these days crush on older celebrities. It's not really different.
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(Anonymous) 2011-09-25 08:45 am (UTC)(link)And no shame for having a crush on Matthew Lillard. He may have played goofy characters, but he was no ugly duckling and had a solid body. ;)
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that being said, it's pretty weird for me to remember my gigantic childhood crush on aaron carter LOL HE WAS LIKE TEN
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not to diss on you or jump on your wording it's just a little bit of a blanket generalization so in the future you could try not to do that, if it's not too much trouble!
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(Anonymous) 2011-09-25 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)Erm...so I should have rephrased it as 'this is what 13 year old heterosexual girls are into?"
I am pretty sure that was implied...and yes it was a bit of a generalization because the secret was about girls (or boys whatever) who like older men...
sorry if I offended you by daring not to include every niche of the sexual/gender spectrum.
Also, I am bisexual so I am not sure you were implying that I am somehow homophobic or hetero normative or just a meany mean mean head or something...
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i just said that even though it seems like a harmless generalization, that kind of thing can be hurtful and it would be better if you said something like "13 year olds" in which people could make the inference that you meant "13 year olds into dudes"
and then you wouldn't be synonymizing the idea of "girls" with "people who like dudes"
anyway i'm sorry if i pissed you off? i'm just trying to say that... your wording sort of bothered me and in the future, even if it seems silly to you, maybe you could try to make less generalizations!!!
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Then again, OP, I had (and still do have) the biggest crush on David Bowie when I was a teen.
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but anyway I suspect you crushed on matthew lillard because he's fucking hot; feel no shame, OP.
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So... yeah. /csb