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fandomsecrets2011-09-24 03:43 pm
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Re: oh hell naw
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)i think chaz bono is def a man, op thinking he's attractive is not any less of a straight woman, etc.
but while it's great some people stay with their partners through transition, that's not possible for everyone. (and i'm pretty sure i've seen some cases where people stay with them, but it becomes more like a friendship, less sex, etc-- so it's not like the relationship never changes)
but when it comes to intimate sexual relationships (NOT simply attraction), sometimes bodies DO matter. saying "if you truly like someone you won't care about their body" imposes the following choices if you are gay/straight (or otherwise not interested/turned off by certain genitalia):
a) never have sex
b) have sex, but possibly not the type you desire (so as not to involve what turns you off)
c) force yourself to start getting turned on by something you're not attracted to
d) admit you don't love the person because of this ultimatum
not such fantastic choices.
i don't think it's transphobic to say "i am attracted to men AND penises/women AND vulvas." but it WOULD be fucked up and transphobic to say something like "i could never be attracted on the surface to a trans guy" or "i am attracted to men AND penises, and this person meets that criteria, but i totes can't date them because i know they haven't always met it."
Re: oh hell naw
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)since you seem to "know" so much about it.
Re: oh hell naw
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)"some cases" except not all trans people are the same. no really.
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)opinions'observations' on others."okay cool, i just wanted to know where we all stood with you.
Re: "some cases" except not all trans people are the same. no really.
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)lol that's funny considering the comment i was replying to was saying since some people stay with their SO through transition and ~gender doesn't matter~ it can be the exact same for everyone
Re: "some cases" except not all trans people are the same. no really.
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)Re: "some cases" except not all trans people are the same. no really.
(Anonymous) 2011-09-24 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)