[ SECRET POST #170 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #170 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

The first thing that comes to mind is for me to say "I'm sorry", though of course, I'm not your ex BF or anything.

My reasoning however is something like this sort of happened to me a few years back, only from the perspective of the best friend of the bisexual partner - my friend had loved me since the day we met. I was dating someone else at the time and so were they so it never came out, but every partner my friend had found out after a while that they came second to me.

I never knew and looking back on it I really should have seen the signs.

I still feel guilty to this day for hurting my partner's ex so much; my friend's partner were one of best friends I've EVER had but I couldn't help what I felt, and neither could my friend, now my current partner. Even though we're still dating and even though I can now talk to my parnter's ex quite easily and it's like we were before, I will most likely never shift the guilt.

Apologies for the ramble and comlex stuffs but yeah... bottom line is I'm really sorry you had to go through that. I would never wish it on anyone, ever. Especially after being the cause of that kind of pain. I hope, from the bottom of my heart, that it gets easier for you soon and you find love again.

Re: 21

[(Anonymous)]

One reason it hurt is because the friend wasnt interested at ALL. If theyd gotten together I think it wouldve felt better because then at least hed be happy. thanks for the sympathy, it means a lot that you took the time to say soemthing.

Re: 21

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I can see how that in itself would suck. I suppose it wouldn't feel like a 'waste', as such, if the friend had been interested at least. I'm a firm believer though that nothing is EVER a waste, no matter how much it may feel like it.

Again, I'm really sorry. I wish I could really do something to help. Hang in there, yo ♥

Re: 21

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

From that same exact perspective, I sympathize. Unfortunately I tried a relationship with my friend and it didn't work, though her ex-boyfriend is now my best friend. I wish you all the luck in the world.