Fair enough, you have your means and I have mine. I wouldn't have that same sort of life/choices as you but if it works for you and you're happy then coolbeans mate I'm not here to hate/judge.

I can appreciate pairings (love shipping) but there are some that are founded on a fair bit of truth (YMMV on hints as always) and some that just make no sense to me and I stay away from those. I agree there can be a spectrum but on most big Hollywood stuff there is no spectrum and that's the thing lol. So it doesn't always apply to characters of a certain fandom, but if it applies to yours, aight.