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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-10-23 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #1755 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1755 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-10-23 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I also agree that people can just be friends, and that's fine if you don't want to read fic for that pairing. (I don't read Doctor/companion fic for that reason, as an example from my fandom.)

However, it's also not reasonable to decide the rest of the world has to see things the same way you do. Not everyone's views on friendship are the same as yours, for example. In my own personal real life, I am currently best friends with my ex-husband (which Hollywood believes is impossible), and I have had sex with one of my closest (straight) female friends. Relationships are not always neatly delineated between FRIENDS and FUCKING.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-23 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
LIES THIS IS NOT WHAT HOLLYWOOD TAUGHT ME

[identity profile] saturnonjupiter.livejournal.com 2011-10-23 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair enough, you have your means and I have mine. I wouldn't have that same sort of life/choices as you but if it works for you and you're happy then coolbeans mate I'm not here to hate/judge.

I can appreciate pairings (love shipping) but there are some that are founded on a fair bit of truth (YMMV on hints as always) and some that just make no sense to me and I stay away from those. I agree there can be a spectrum but on most big Hollywood stuff there is no spectrum and that's the thing lol. So it doesn't always apply to characters of a certain fandom, but if it applies to yours, aight.

(Anonymous) 2011-10-23 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally, I think if more people were able to be friends with their ex, the world would be a better place. Not that there aren't toxic douchebags out there, but not every ex is immediately deserving of being cut out of your life 4evar!!!1

[identity profile] saturnonjupiter.livejournal.com 2011-10-23 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I wouldn't argue, it'd be nice if people could get along peacefully after they break up. And yeah you rarely see in Hollywood examples of that happening, so, just continuing the problem right there.

It prob depends on the situation too but if you can end things nicely I don't see why you should default to egging each others' new SO's car or something.