Not really. I've been in fandom that bashed fujoshi/slashers and their pairings like crazy and to keep saying that the annoying ones are only m/m shippers when a majority of ship wars happen with het shippers is disingenuous. I'm pretty much tried that only m/m shippers get the label of annoying shippers when annoying shippers exist in both het and femslash fandoms as well, and there are no more rarer either.

It's really more the type of fan than what they ship. Pushy, somewhat self-righteous, bossy people will always be annoying to deal with.