Hey, it's not your fault that in general - and in kids shows especially - male characters tend to sit on a bell-curve that is better written, has deeper stories, is more badass and picks up chicks more (although in a heteronormative society I guess that one's a given). You should relate to whoever you want, but IF there is a problem it's that there aren't more well-written, deep, badass, magnetically attractive, bringing-home-the-bacon chicks who you can relate to.

If it's any consolation, Cyclops is awesome in Evolution. "Then take it... RAW!"